RiRi and CB-My take on it!

Everyone's talking about it and now it's time for me to sound off about it! Yes, Chris Brown went to town on Rihanna's behind! We all saw the pictures and heard what went down. But guess what? I don't care! First of all I don't care about their personal relationship and who cares if they're still together or not? I don't, if she prefers to be knocked upside the head now and again who am I to tell her that it's wrong? All I have to say is Chris Brown can still sing and dance his butt off! He puts on a GREAT show and Rihanna's not my friend, I don't owe her jack so I will still be going to his shows and buying his cds!! And like Forest Gump says, that's all I have to say about that.




Side note: Domestic violence is never right, if you want to get out leave!!

The Truth About Your Man and Me!!

Before you read listen to this song ("If Tha Mood" by Esthero)Lyrics at the bottom of this blog!

I know what you've heard about your man and me and I'm here to set the record straight! If you think your man is cheating on you, then more than likely he is! Is it with me? Maybe, then again maybe not. But guess what honey? I'm not your friend and my loyalty does not lie with you so if I feel the need to slide up in between you and your man then I will! I am not the problem, your relationship is! If I am/was able to get in between the two of you that means there was a crack in your foundation that your stupid self failed to fix! But anyway let me get to telling you how I got what's supposed to be yours! hahaha

Now if I just met your man and we exchanged information then chances are I never knew about you! But then again maybe I did and didn't care (like I said I'm not your friend). The fact that I got him means that you either aren't really what he wants, aren't fulfilling his needs, or just aren't appreciated by him. Either way the fact that he strayed NOT MY PROBLEM! But you and he still have a chance because I'm probably just an intriguing person with a beautiful face, he likes me but it ain't love. WORK ON IT!

Now if he and I were friends back in the day and he's just now getting at me, that means he's had a thing for me since way back when! In all honesty I'm probably not dealing with your man on anything other than the friendship level. But if you suspect he's cheating, he is, it's just not with me! Either way I"m his friend, not yours so...once again NOT MY PROBLEM! Now you and he just might be screwed for one of two reasons: (1) He's got my scent in his nose and you will never be me and he won't be happy until he has me!! (2) He may not be cheating with me but he is cheating with someone else. But hey, you may be able to work things out (stupid broad)

Now if he's my ex, former lover, etc then homeboy is just hooked on the memory of me and will do anything to get back in my good graces. He's doing things for me that you couldn't pay him to do...SORRY ABOUT THAT!! You really need to worry about me and do whatever you can to fix your relationship with your man because IF I decide I want him back it's OVER for the two of you. When you're not in his room, I AM! When he's not in his room HE'S IN MINE! When you are in his room, he's texting me, thinking of me, and yearning for my touch! The worst part of your situation is that even if I want/have nothing to do with him, you're still competing with the ghost of me!

No matter what your situation is, and what my relationship is with your man don't take your frustrations with your relationship out on me! I don't fight over boys or men. Either they want you and want to treat you right or they don't!! So... STOP CALLING MY PHONE, STOP TEXTING ME, STOP MESSAGING ME!!! and most of all STOP BAD-MOUTHING ME! It's not like I took him from you hahaha! Keep his sorry behind!

OH and I don't share men so think about that before your half-retarded behind calls me from a private #!!


"If Tha Mood" by Esthero

Remember when we used to?.. We can do that again...
I know I said it was over but if you ever wanna come over
I think I got what it takes to make you feel nice
Because you gave yourself to another
But I suppose you haven't forgotten what my love tastes like
And she won't fuck you like I do and you know that it's true cause
I have what she hasn't got and I remember all your spots so

If tha mood should hit ya and ya wanna, baby I don't mind
A little taste may relieve the tension I feel inside

Curl up in my cozy web this unbelievably delicious bed
Oh, don't say no, that's not how this should go
I've thought about you often, this feeling hasn't gone rotten
Let's take a spin round that old block again you say
She won't fuck you like I did, she's not into that wild shit and
I have what she hasn't got...really? Well then

So if tha mood should hit ya and ya wanna, baby I don't mind
A little taste may relieve the tension I feel inside

Shakari Nite: you always know what things to do to keep me wanting you,
and also all the things to say to keep me comin your way
due to the beauty preferred, its hard for me to be true to my girl
cant be trust wit you in my world (i'm glued to the kush, ya heard?)
no gas, my tanks empty, i'm stuck in your town
the plan's to gently buckle you down and fuck you now...i wanna fuck you now
only the truth is wit me, now im phenen to screw you swiftly
now I don't mean to be rude with tha lips b.
i'm guessin the mood just hit me

If tha mood should hit ya and ya wanna, baby I don't mind
A little taste may relieve the tension I feel inside
[3x]

Obama's not a Duke fan!

Clearly our President {{Barack Obama}} knows what many people are in denial about: UNC will beat Duke in the NCAA title!! UNC is number one for a reason, because they're the best!! Yes Duke beat UNC but it's ok, Carolina had to let them have that one game so they wouldn't feel so bad about not attaining that NCAA ring!! So when filling out those brackets let's think presidental and put UNC in that top four. Better than that go one step further and put the Tarheels as #1 the champs! Tarheels, get with it!!



See Obama pick UNC

On another note a big congratulations to the ladies of UNC Charlotte and NC A&T!!!

Race, Ethnicity, and Nationality

I'm am one that's all for embracing your heritage and where you come from and I acknowledge the differences from culture to culture. I also don't believe in defining a person by race alone, but I hate it when someone says "I'm not white, I'm **fill in NATIONALITY here**" (i.e. I'm not white, I'm German or Italian or whatever else). Ugh, that just does not make any sense. That's like me saying, "I'm not black, I'm American." Race and nationality ARE NOT interchangeable. When you fill out paperwork and they ask for race, you don't see Italian, African, or any other nationality so why would you try and correct someone when they call you white? It's what you are! Are you ashamed of it or something? Would you prefer the term Caucasoid?



Maybe it's silly of me to let something so silly bother me, but it does. I just want people to accept their whiteness just like I want everyone else to accept their race!

And while I'm on the topic of race, I'm so glad that people are openly admitting to wanting to be black. {{Man this blog is going to make me seem like a racist or a black supremacist}} Back in the day white people snuck into the "black world" and sopped up what the could of our culture. Then they drained it of all the juice and incorporated it until their own. I mean it's how Elvis (with his racist self) became famous. In today's society it's more than just our music, it's our style of dress, our attitudes, and strangely enough the traditions of our Greek-letter organizations. All of a sudden historically white fraternities and sororities are party hopping, stepping, doing hand signs and calls. I guess imitation is the greatest form of flattery but dang. If you want to do all of this so badly why don't you just join an NPHC org!!



Anyway that's enough of that! Just know I love all people, no matter their color, creed, religion whatever!! Stay blessed!!