You start it, you finish it!!

Although this should not have to be said to people, I find that most folks now-a-days need to hear it: IF YOU START SOMETHING FINISH IT!! And DON'T START SOMETHING UNLESS YOU ARE SURE IT'S WHAT YOU WANT!!

Ok, I'm just not understanding people rushing into things or initiating things and then running away once the ball has started rolling. If you can't keep up with the ball or aren't willing to go where the ball leads you then I suggest you leave well enough alone and let that ball stay stationary. In running away from things you are at least wasting people's time and may also be wasting money, resources and playing with folks emotions. There may even be someone who wants to be in your poistion but can't because you took that oppertunity and wasted it!!

RELATIONSHIPS: I'm speaking from experience on this one. Now don't start something with someone and then back out. I've had a guy initiate the feelings in my mind, then decide that he couldn't handle what everyone else would say about he and I. #$%$$# What??? You should have thought about that before hand, because I darn sure wasn't thinking about you before you went out of your way to make me think about you!! You started it now don't be too scared to finish it! Oh too late I'm gone!

Also if you have something going on with someone and you want to end it....END IT! (even I was guilty about this once upon a time) Don't just stop calling and answering the phone, avoiding them and whatever else. Let them know it's over and why. Nothing is worse than having something being over but having no closure. No closure means the doorway is still open to having emotions flowing freely whereever and whenever they chose. And love turns into hate mightly quickly!!

JOBS and SCHOOL: There is absolutely ntohing wrong with changing your mind about what you want to do with the rest of your life, but please please please don't change your mind because what you first decided to do turned out to be to hard or time consuming. Every job and career path has it's own set of obsticles and even your dream job or major is going to have something about it that you're not going to like. Don't settle for less because it's easy. And even if it is just a part time job don't quit because they made you work the one Friday you wanted to go out, get over it and suck it up! It's a recession be glad you've got a job!!

PLEDGING: Now normally I wouldn't give a rat's behind about this but, it's becoming an epidemic as well!! Why the heck are you gonna pay all this money, get on line then decide you can't take it and quit?? Do you know where the money tree is? Because if so I need the hook-up!?!? Did you not know it was going to be hard work? Ugh STUPID! And by your stupid butt getting on line there is some man or woman mad as heck that they didn't get on (poor them dreams crushed). Even worse are those who dreams about being a member of ABC Frat or Sorority but heard that CDE didn't go as hard or only had to be online for a week so you pledged them instead!! DO Betta!!

With all that being said, it's time for many people to man up and quit coping out! Do what you do but finish what you do as well...